Care Guide: Dog & Cat

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Dogs & Cats Care Guide

How to brush, bathe, read the happy signs, and the full list of household dangers (grapes, we see you) — no jargon, from the people who obsess over what goes on your pet's skin.

With Dr Rebecca MacMillan BVetMed MRCVS

A note from the family

Hello, from us to you

We built Family Portrait because we couldn't find a pet skincare brand that treated the science with the same respect as the styling. Regular cleansing and grooming reduces dermatitis, yeast overgrowth, hot spots, dandruff, shedding, inflammation.

But who likes to bath a dog or a cat, right?

This guide answers what we get asked most, with input from vet Dr Rebecca MacMillan BVetMed. Save it, print it, stick it to the fridge — just not somewhere your dog can chew it.

Part one

Dogs

No two coats behave the same — the right routine depends entirely on what your dog is working with.


How can I tell if my dog is happy?

Grooming works best when your dog is relaxed going in, so it helps to know what relaxed looks like.

The relaxed signs
  • Loose, wiggly body — weight evenly spread on all four paws.
  • Tail at natural mid-height, swishing gently.
  • Soft eyes, relaxed mouth, sometimes a panting 'smile'.
  • Ears neutral, forward-ish — not pinned or rigid.
  • Leaning into you, play bows, normal appetite and sleep.
On the flip side

A tucked tail, pinned ears, a stiff 'whale eye' stare, lip-licking, yawning out of context, or inching away all suggest your dog would rather be elsewhere. Dial sessions back and rebuild slowly.

How often do I need to brush my dog?

It depends entirely on coat type.


Long coatDaily

Long pins brush for the surface, undercoat rake deeper, wide-tooth comb for knots. Afghan Hound, Maltese, Briard.

Medium coat2–3× / wk

Focus on the thick undercoat and feathery areas, which mat first. Golden Retriever, German Shepherd, Springer Spaniel.

Short coatWeekly

A natural-bristle brush or grooming mitt lifts loose hair and spreads oils. Labrador, Vizsla, Staffie.

Curly coatDaily

Slicker for heavy lifting, metal comb behind the ears, pin brush to fluff. Poodle, Bichon Frisé, Bedlington Terrier.

Wiry coat2–3× / wk

Soft brush for dead fur, undercoat rake if needed. Schnauzer, German Wire-haired Pointer.

Top tip. Brush in the direction of hair growth, keep sessions short and treat-heavy. If your dog seems distressed, stop — there's always tomorrow.

My dog hates the brush. Now what?

Start early, keep sessions short and rewarding. A grooming mitt is a gentle entry point. Set-in mats are a job for a groomer or vet.

Does my dog need professional grooming?

Non-shedding curly coats need clipping every 4–6 weeks. Wire coats need hand-stripping every 6–8 weeks.


Coat, health & when to worry

Improving coat condition

Regular brushing clears dead fur and spreads natural oils. Feed a good-quality, life-stage food; omega-3 can help (ask your vet). Keep parasite treatment current, especially for flea allergic dermatitis.

When's it a vet visit?

Grooming doubles as a health check. Book a visit for:

› Persistent scurf or dander
› Hair loss or thinning
› Scratching, licking, head shaking
› Inflamed skin
› Scabs or skin sores
› Lumps or bumps

How often to bathe?

Most dogs need a full bath every one to three months. Active dogs, tangle-prone coats or skin conditions may need more. Hairless breeds like the Chinese Crested need one to two weeks plus moisturiser. Over-bathing strips natural oils — always use dog-specific, pH-appropriate shampoo.

Dog smells between baths?

You don't need a full bath. A fragrance-free, enzyme-based wipe built on lysozyme captures odour at the core rather than masking it — freshening coat and paws without disturbing the skin barrier.


Paws, folds & the family routine

Cleaning paws after a walk

A quick wipe-down between pads and toes removes grit, pollen and salt before they irritate. Itchy paws that don't settle in a few days are worth a vet chat.

Family with a baby too?

Same skin-safety logic: fragrance-free, EWG-compliant, lick-safe formulas near crawling hands and curious faces.

Caring for skin folds

Bulldogs, Shar Pei and similar breeds need creases dried gently. Medicated wipes help prevent secondary infection.

How to bathe a dog

1
Prepare

Dog-specific shampoo, towels, pitcher, non-slip mat, treats.

2
Reassure

Settle on the mat with calm praise.

3
Lukewarm water

A few inches; avoid face and ears.

4
Lather & rinse

Rinse until every trace of suds is gone.

5
Dry

Pat with a towel; air-dry or low heat.

Praise and treats throughout
— every step of it.

Nails, teeth & the rest

When should I cut my dog's nails?

Trim when nails touch the ground while walking, tap on hard floors, or snag on soft furnishings.

Do I need to brush my dog's teeth?

Yes, daily ideally — periodontal disease is one of the most common issues vets see. Use a soft, dog-specific brush and pet toothpaste.


Foods toxic to dogs

Chocolatetheobromine, unsafe at any dark level.
Grapes & raisinsacute kidney failure, no safe dose.
Onions, garlic, chives, leeksdamage red blood cells.
Xylitoldangerous insulin spike, liver risk.
Macadamia nutsweakness, tremors, hyperthermia.
Alcohol & caffeinefar more severe than in humans.
Avocadopersin causes vomiting, diarrhoea.
Cooked bonessplinter, internal injury risk.
Raw bread doughexpands, ferments alcohol.
Human medicationtoxic even at low doses.

Plants harmful to dogs

Sago palmevery part toxic, especially seeds.
Daffodil & tulip bulbsbulbs are the danger.
Oleanderhighly toxic, small amounts.
Yewwidely used in hedging.
Autumn crocusconfused with spring crocus.
Azalea & rhododendroncommon hedge shrubs.
Foxglovetoxic to the heart in any quantity.
Part two

Cats

Cats do most of their own grooming — but that still leaves plenty for you to get right.

Signs of stress

Flattened ears, a puffed or thrashing tail, hissing, hiding or sudden overgrooming. Shorter, gentler sessions with treats help rebuild trust.


How can I tell if my cat is happy?

The contentment signs
  • A slow blink — try blinking slowly back.
  • Upright tail with a soft curl or quiver.
  • Purring, kneading, choosing to be near you.
  • Relaxed posture, normal appetite and sleep.
Signs of stress

Flattened ears, a puffed or thrashing tail, hissing, hiding or sudden overgrooming. Shorter, gentler sessions with treats help rebuild trust.

How often to brush my cat?

Long-hairedOften daily

Prone to tangles that quickly become mats. Slicker for the surface, comb deeper, work top layer downward.

Short-hairedWeekly

Less prone to knots, but still worth a regular brush to lift dead hair and spread oils.

My cat hates being brushed?

Start early. Keep sessions short and reward-led. A grooming mitt is often the easiest entry point.

Coat, health & the bath question

Improving coat condition

Regular brushing clears dead fur and spreads natural oils. Portion control matters — overweight cats often can't reach to self-groom. Keep parasite treatment current.

When's it a vet visit?

› Persistent scurf or dander
› Hair loss or thinning
› Excessive scratching, overgrooming
› Inflamed skin
› Scabs or skin sores
› Lumps or bumps

Do I need to bathe my cat?

Almost never. Exceptions: hairless breeds, a medical condition, or something sticky. Sphynx cats need regular bathing.

Nails & teeth

Most cats manage claws through scratching. Brush teeth daily where you can — periodontal disease is the most common issue vets see in cats.

How to bathe a cat

1
Prepare

Cat-specific shampoo, towels, pitcher, non-slip mat, treats.

2
Reassure

Calm praise while settled on the mat.

3
Lukewarm water

A few inches; avoid face and ears.

4
Lather & rinse

Never human shampoo or dish soap.

5
Dry

Pat with a towel; air-drying usually works.

Foods & plants to keep away

Toxic foods


Chocolatetheobromine, toxic in small amounts.
Onions, garlic, chives, leeksdamage red blood cells.
Grapes & raisinsacute kidney failure risk.
Xylitoldangerous insulin spike.
Alcohol & caffeinefar more severe than in humans.
Raw doughexpands, ferments alcohol.
Cow's milkmost adult cats are lactose intolerant.
Dog food (as a staple)missing taurine cats need.
Raw fish (regularly)depletes thiamine over time.

Harmful plants

Tulip & daffodil bulbsbulbs are the toxic part.
Sago palmevery part is toxic.
Dieffenbachia (dumb cane)oral irritation and swelling.
Oleanderhighly toxic in small amounts.
Azalea & rhododendroncommon hedge shrubs.
Poinsettiagenerally mild irritation.
The one to know by heart

True lilies are severely toxic to cats — even pollen on fur or vase water can cause fatal kidney failure. Safest number of lilies in a cat household: zero.

Closing note

From our family to yours

No pet has ever complained about too much attention — so lean in. Grooming time is health care in disguise: lumps get caught, mats get sorted, fleas get evicted. But underneath the science, it's really just you, a brush, and a good excuse to remind them they're the best thing that ever happened to you.

From our family to yours
— Gouzelle, Agata & Odessa